Sometimes, the things we might be attracted to might not be the best fit for us. Like shopping for new clothes, everything you try on might not fit. When you like something and recognize it doesn’t fit, be willing to let it go. You cannot miss out on what you want by waiting for it. You can miss out on what you want by holding on to something that doesn’t fit.
Let Go
I once saw a shirt that caught my eye because of its style and color. But when I tried it on, it did not fit. I would not have known that just by looking at it. This lesson can apply to opportunities and people you meet. You might take a job that seemed perfect on paper but later discover it is unfulfilling. Or you meet someone you like, but the more you get to know them, you recognize how incompatible you are. Instead of holding on, let go of what doesn’t fit you.
Be Patient
Sometimes, we fear letting go of what we have because we do not believe we can have better. You may fear missing out, so you settle for things that do not fit you. The possibility of having what you want is there if you are willing to wait. When you take time to wait, you are less likely to settle. You also create space to receive what you are waiting for. Even if what you want looks attractive, consider whether or not it’s a good fit. If you discover something or someone is not a good fit, let it go and wait for what you want.
I hope this post encourages you to wait for what you want and to let go of what doesn’t fit. You can fulfill your desires as long as you are willing to wait.