What would you say if I asked you what you want more of in your life? Whether it’s money, love, or success, making room in your life for the things you desire is important. That means staying focused on what you want and taking actions that align with it. We all may want more, but are we ready for it? It isn’t enough to want it. There has to be some intentionality behind making our dreams a reality.
Inspiration vs. Imitation
When you think about what you want, why do you want it? Some people believe that reaching a particular goal will make them happier. But what if what you want is based on someone else’s happiness, not your own? For example, you might see how happy your friend is after buying their dream home and think that if you buy yours, you’ll feel the same way. But this is an expectation based on someone else’s standards, rather than your heart’s desires. On the other hand, if you’ve always wanted to own a home and your friend’s dream home inspires you, that’s a completely different story.
It is essential to consider the intention behind our desires. Is this desire based on our values or an expectation? True happiness comes from knowing who we are and living a life that reflects our authenticity. What makes your friend happy might not be the same thing that makes you happy. The reason is because happiness is internal, not external. You don’t become happier by having what someone else has. You become happier by knowing what you want and working to get it.
Inner Happiness
Social media has allowed us to curate a life we want others to see. If we want people to see how in love we are, we might share cute photos of our significant other. While there’s nothing wrong with sharing happy moments, some might believe these highlight reels are all it takes to be happy. That’s why it’s important not to get distracted by what we see online, and instead trust that the happiness we seek comes from within. It’s not about living by social media standards but through our core values.
When considering what to make space for, reflect on your core values. Your values are the compass for fulfilling your desires and achieving happiness. They are unique to you and reflect who you are. Once you know what you want, think about the actions you can take to achieve it. Don’t allow other people’s dreams to distract you from your own. Instead, let their dreams remind you of what’s possible for you.
Final Takeaway
Take a moment to think about what you want to make space for in your life. Now, consider the intention behind that desire. If we want to create a life that makes us happier, it requires being clear about our core values. Once we know our values, we can take actions that align with our desire. By doing this, we create space for more happiness.